Against the four magic words and wounding

All of life, unhappy things often, to be abusive treatment that is. This article by means of evil: insult, slander, libel and false swearing language behavior. Many of us hear others malicious, unfair criticism or motives offensive defamatory insults, not angry, sad, with the result that he was confused mental sluggishness, physical discomfort, not only make life difficult for yourself, the impact of the work, career, life, also called person is given a "windfall". Clearly, how to correct mindset and effective behavior of evil, treat others in relationships of adversity does not defeat, is important to create a better life.

1. in accused person often, scolding ' persons – everyone is evil

We always say we want to open. In fact, looking at reality, swearing, and scolding are numerous. There is the civilian population of personal attacks, abusive political, even to the feudal emperors with swearing to the heart of anger, not only is the Emperor, and called the omnibus to ordered. Truly man is not called, and which do not swear. Mao swore by the Kuomintang decades "communist bandit"; Mr. Lu Xun to be reactionary forces and shameless literati insults, cursed life; Deng Xiaoping was criticizing Lin Biao and gang of four named to the "right", the "capitalist"; United States President Washington's founding fathers in the war of independence criticized as a "liar" and "bad" than murderers also; inventor Fulton was invent risked his smoky vessels, being conservative people called "fool Fulton"; sexuality pioneer Kinsey until death are known as "dirty", "rogue" ... However, they do not shrink, more courageous; not only did not scolding down, but make them immortal. Obviously, the destructive force of evil against you and the physical or mental injury depends on your mental qualities, spiritual realm and ideals. For a cheerful, develop a vision and faith of the people, the evil of hate speech is has no effect, but can enhance the scolding ' winning faith, so as to forge ahead and perseverance.

2. an upbeat,----evil and Nai I HO

In everyday working life, if not a cardinal principle, sometimes someone else's evil is not a big thing, crazy.

Confucius had travelled, once separated from the students. Someone on Zi Gong said: "the East Gate of someone whose forehead like Yao, its item class, its shoulder Gao class of fuel, so the following from the waist and not three-inch, was Yu as strays. "Confucius" Xin laugh after hearing "road," is not so good, I like it too on strays,. "United Kingdom naturalist Huxley was a passionate advocacy Darwin's theory of evolution, by church members as Darwin's a dog. Huxley admits, "I'm a dog, I was a Bulldog. "Thus express their determination to defend the truth. United States President Bill Clinton to speak of the answer is quite witty. In the 1992 general election TV debate, opponents said Clinton was his wife of a puppet, the implication is clear and dark Volt with the knife. Clinton--and stony road: "I wonder if you are running for President or Mrs. Clinton campaign?" is a phrase repartee, infinite charm. He used this foolish language, avoid others on their own age too light not equal a great President of suspicion, and his wife in politics of fear.

3. face the scolding, amended their mistake — perfect for promoting your words

In a lot of time, others criticize you have called your token, even your very useful. We might as well call it wrongly accused. If you are really straightforward, mistakenly called can also promote your moral self promotion and improvement of working methods.

United States civil war, Lincoln as President. His military theory and action is basically a layman, war Minister himself sometimes to Staunton next what indicates that an accused by his irony: "this command under the President, he is killed by a fool. "Lincoln hearing the words, not temper, but on the return of people say:" If the Staunton said I was days to kill the fool, that I must be stupid, he usually is. "This Lincoln to let him and grant General go dry, avoiding the backseat.

Admittedly, the great man is a great man. He was able to open mind's modest inclusive to criticize their own people to learn, learn useful things. This may be the Sage is different from our place. Confucius heard someone calling himself "sedentary, the grain is not" immediately sent the disciples to go to for advice. On the contrary, if you work in the smell too is anger, self-willed, ear will only have the sycophancy and no call. Visible, as a people, a leading cadres should I swore to their working methods and work results. History has proven to be a man, side are called sound, which at most of them are beneficial. From another perspective, the sound can also promote your work. A central leaders had pointed out that if we do not strengthen economic construction, not improve people's lives, people would call us. In the feudal society there are also some industrious people's most basic point of departure the official is not let ordinary people criticize their own mother, making their own history of unnamed.

4. go its own way, to let others go — the curse words inspire you struggle

Everyone lives in a complex social relations of production, a variety of conflict of interests, ideas, is the origin of curse. Very often, you hear is not a false swearing, but evil. On this, as events are not affected by this evil, we should stick to a faith: go your own way, and let others curse!

Historically, many great cause are scolding the sound in the dry, previously mentioned, Fulton, Kinsey, illustrates the problem. In the current economic system reform, business optimization, I do not know how many people have been touched by vested interests, some walking in the forefront of the reform leaders do not know how to curse. Bonus less to criticize, bonus much to criticize; to the East it was called the Director, the Manager to the West it was called. If your chest without independent, curse you only; or waffling, please call someone who, as a result can not achieve anything. Because nobody can make everyone happy. So

United States adult educators to Dell. Carnegie says "reply spicy attack is stupid"; Mrs. Roosevelt claimed that he treated the slanderous method is "like in upright position in the data frame of puppet indifferent." Just as the appreciation of Xun: Supreme contempt is silent, and even the eyes do not go past. United States, former President Jimmy Carter, his wife also recognized: "whatever you do, there will always be people who say whatsoever. So, you'd better go and do you think the country is good for business, don't be afraid of their eligibility. ”

Others on your extremely defamatory, critical capabilities, you should be pleased, because you have succeeded.

Therefore, as a community leader, public opinion, and should be dialectically the evil people. Sometimes a good guy also has many words, because his uprightness, justice, law enforcement such as mountain. Conversely, a malicious characters lose the position of principle, generous at the State's money, good catering, stalwarts, might get a slice of compliments. We often heard in the media, have long been considered the hard-working, loving plants such as the House turned out to be a big corruption committed; some were reporting person ascertained that turned out to be a Councillor's leadership, the reason is this. Facts have proved that a person is not scolding — especially leaders, who either useless or bad guys, and we should be wary of such people. Of course, this article deals with the accused is not a good one that bullying of favoritism, the nation's curse of sinners. This is to be noted.