With the Confucian learning management: communication to the theory of

Zi Gong party people. Ts'ze yin is so final? I cannot spare the al.

Only the person holding the Zi Gong alwu, talk a little bit harsh enough euphemism, Confucius once said: "people talk Zi Gong on so that he can become righteous? change do me, I don't have time to go on finding fault. ”

Sometimes the fastest way to reach the finish line is not the most direct way, but rather convoluted way. We communicate, just hard words may be justified, but the other does not have to listen in. Soft words said before finishing touches can be a little bit, but the other to go in terms of the efficiency of the latter is certainly more effective. Confucius in zigong, does not indicate Zi Gong do wrong, to force him to correct them, he used his work to map the error Zi Gong. In this way easier for the zigong, easier to change Zi Gong.

LAO has a lecture, asked his students, is the grass, strong or tree strong, powerful, students say the tree and asked that Laozi wind coming is the grass to pour or tree first. Students say: tree first. Lao Zi q is hard hard or tongue tooth, students say: comparison of sharp teeth. Lao Zi said: I am not in this age of teeth tongue still exist. I mean weak will and firm, we in the communication process to consider the other side can hear, what you said before on other deaf is futile. Only by meeting each other for each other to hear in order to achieve the objective of our communication.

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World to soft, get to heaven, weak tend to be more strong.