Whoever, as long as you have already participated in the work, it is necessary to deal with the boss. Superiors have various types, some look serious, to subordinate requirements are very strict; on the surface but don't pretend to; there is a suspicion of being very heavy, very easy to misunderstand subordinates; lips made it sound good, but not practical ... In short, the boss is 10 persons 10 samples. Faced with the boss, you should take and what kind of strategies to conquer him. Keep you in his hands tenable? this is really a University asked. Japan's Yap shaft, made a number of viable, we will which summarized as thirteen tips, you may wish to try.
1. efficient, let your boss to confirm you are a man of
First of all, you should take you serious attitude shown to him.
Entrepreneurs are most efficient in the world. If you are unable to manmantuntun efficiency, so, no matter how good you are, or how to acknowledge their work attitude, your boss won't be here for you.
Once in the confirmation is the misappropriation of swallowing, lazy insect, dispirited, yes man, would only say that compliment flattery, whiny, it is hard to stand up.
If you delegate to the boss, you run smoothly, and then you ask your boss, "but I do?" so one by one, their occupation, believe that your boss will admire you.
2. the best you can; active burden for boss
Being a boss who, every day in order to work and busy, and deeply significant responsibility. So, when they found the work cannot be carried out smoothly, and shoulder stiffness, eyes flower, white hair more, they are taken aback. Even some people worry that they would become neurotic and uneasy.
And they very much want to get rid of this environment, always looking for ways to let him rest assured delegates work of subordinates. If anyone is just tell him points, you can easily go to handle the work of subordinates and superiors sent him to work, I do not know how much you want to relax the mind. But in fact, this subsidiary also is not easy to find. Most are slightly criticized two sentences are not happy, and say a lot of reasons to rebut. So, the boss is disappointed.
So when his men to truly understand the boss of this expectation, to shoulder the burden from your boss, the boss will surprise and said: "do not be too reluctantly, the box is too heavy for you. Don't fall! you are such a great help! "and so on. Hope that we can strive to give it a try.
3. no kissing, as long as thoroughly completed assignment to work under your name
Men do not obey the order, making the work can't finish, is the most superior annoyed.
Most of the boss, take responsibility for both the quantity and weight, often tired. Therefore, he would very much like their followers can share part of the work, and your work is distributed according to your abilities. If you are not able to follow orders, that is not in accordance with the results expected of him to do something, to complete the work he is assigned, you will have accidents. At the same time they will be in my heart always, when his men to complete the work, what you want to be assigned. This step-by-step plan.
However, the subordinate is not in accordance with their own commands to perform the work, which breaking his just managed to set out a plan. In this way, not only the boss on your own responsibility to explain, even pay a higher price. As a result, because men do not seriously, boss. Then he will be angry.
We do not need to be kissing the boss, as long as thoroughly completed assignment to work in their own name, is to let your boss the most pleasure.
4. public and private, must not cause too close and too easy
Boss status and you have quite a difference, if the age difference, of course he will thoroughly treat you like come on, you will feel that your boss is getting close. However, if the boss's age and you are more or less the same, and also was single, then you can easily produce despise his mentality. More importantly, this kind of mentality is very easy to be sensitive to your boss. Therefore, you must pay attention. When everything is smooth, this kind of psychological also precluding, in case the parties have friction occurs, it's terrible. Boss would think: "this guy, how dare in front of me so arrogant, it was very rude. ”
So, assuming that your boss is single, and how much of a deal older than you, you remain the respected him as superior, while keeping a considerable distance. Do not close because of too much and too casually, or underestimate him. Otherwise, your boss will think you are public or private, or of unknown people treat you like immature person.
5. active recommendations, do not care about the success or failure of the
The company views, recommendations, is a staff of their responsibilities. Although himself a good recommendation from believe the company is helpful, but not necessarily be adopted.
At this moment, you should realize that the company is not a person.
"The company has a corporate vision, the company has a corporate position, or take it easy!" to have such wonderful mood.
Although their proposal was voted down ' you shall not thereby become bitter. This is to get your boss trust.
"His proposal was voted down, but not the slightest dissatisfaction, which is a very spacious good youth. "There are such high praise, said boss is in your hands. Although your proposal was rejected, however you can get him on your future is not a very favorable? company may look forward to your next boss would think proposal!, you are able to make good recommendations of staff, and that you are a regardless of success or failure, are able to maintain ease of optimists. So, after you have many opportunities to make recommendations, while promoting their own opportunities, never less.
6. try to ask questions, distress and their supervisors and discuss
Do you often ask questions about the boss at work? or is their problem, not to discuss it with him?If not, starting today, you should change the policy, as far as possible, and ask questions. An immature men, to mature boss to ask, it is not shameful, and rightly so. Don't think: "I asked, they will laugh at me? I lost my face?" If you think it would be unnecessary. Who's the boss, is very much hope that his Department down queries. Department down asking, his work is unclear, but the boss to answer in order to reduce errors, the boss can also rest assured.
If you pretend to know everything, everything not ask his boss would think: "this man won't be really understand". Sometimes, he would call you to confirm. When the boss before you call, you automatically go: "about something, somewhere, I'm not so sure" or "this is not possible to explain?" or "the thing I can't do it better, I wonder if the Minister advice?" and so on. In summary: want to go without taboo.
When it comes to the "discuss", many people would think of their own affairs. If you are puzzled about something. Should try to make to their supervisors and discuss with him.
In addition to money, everything can be proposed, such as work challenges, family problems, feelings of frustration, men and women can discuss it with your boss.
Your immediate superior, we like to open our hearts, and his discussion of men.
Conquer the boss's a good idea, that is as close as possible to the boss, resulting in mutual understanding among each other. As far as possible to let your boss everywhere himself, to take action to demonstrate what "I rely on you" attitude, your boss will pay for your things.
Boss because you saw him as a reliable person and feel satisfied, and will expect to become more reliable. Let the boss in accordance with your ideas and action, this is the conquest of the boss to summary. However, do not play trick, to treat him as a genuine commitment to go. Even if you rely on his things still cannot successfully completed, you should not blame him, moaning. Only in this way, you are truly able to manipulate the boss man.
7. the sympathetic to disarm his superiors melancholy
The boss's face, and sometimes will sigh. What is the reason why he is sigh? of course, the reasons are many, but the biggest one of the reasons is that men do not know him.
Unable to let men know their mean boss, it is difficult to command leading men.
If you can let your boss think: "this man is trying to understand my", is in a State of solitary and worried about his supervisor. May be close to you, to you for advice. He will think: "why not get everyone to know?" and introspection. At this time, if you can very gently and said to him: "I want you, we may find it difficult to accept. "Unless the boss is a fool, otherwise he will agree.
In addition, you will most likely be his advice, which was his trust. If he's sad, because your words and extinguished, he will be very grateful to you. I think, when you are sure to feel lucky. If you can do this, you are a man of considerable accomplishment.
8. do not avoid to help boss tide
The boss's face, if not change due to distress, is probably his work does not go smoothly when it! when a person is hard work, she wanted to, but Hu work but does complete, always be blue. Boss will not complete the task because men in distress, but also because of their responsibilities by weight, and keep weight down.
However, the majority of men, are shown on the boss's escape, avoid watching his complaining bitterly. Some people even think that this has nothing to do with myself, and utterly ignored. Of course, such people feeling more relaxed, not escape, nor care about. Want to be facing managed to solve troubles for the boss, you must have the courage. Unless a kind-hearted people, otherwise you can not do it. Therefore, there is the idea of a great quality.
If you are such a person, you will put the supervisor distresses distorted "faces" and try to become people's faces, 2 why your boss's job is not smooth? himself is not possible for him to do? could help him? actively to contact their supervisors, he said: "Please let me help you", like for their loved ones to do the same for his efforts.
No matter what size, once your boss in distress, to offer help to him, you said: "thanks, so this thing and I will please you. "And you answered:" OK, let me try it! "and accept it. At this point, I believe that your boss will thank you.
9. look carefully at the boss emotion most vulnerable to comfort him when
The boss's face, will encounter misfortune or bad luck. If something fails, the sorrow of their hearts, far from you, the person who is a subordinate can imagine. So, when the boss man, on the face of it appears to be very proud. In fact, they are standing in the tough struggle for hard position. On completion of the work, at home, they also shouldering the heavy responsibility.
If he's healthy, energetic, work is also very handy, company people think he is very promising, but one day he suddenly revealed, then there must be a problem in the family. He does not say it, have been tried, but naturally will face a distressed look. This delicate face and expression of the change, cannot but be noted.
10. multiple "Shi" and not "subject to" help the boss should not figure in return
No matter what your situation, to "after" sincere, although very difficult to achieve, but we help others should not be kept in mind in the heart of the matter is best left it
Off. If you often use it in the mouth, "at that time I had the help of unit, ..." the incumbent will feel unhappy. In this way, you help, it will turn into nothing. As others have done a good thing, if you can, of course, the other person know went well. However, we generally should not be required, as long as access to conscience satisfaction. In order to be able to successfully complete the Task Manager, own initiative to help him, do not require repayment, or request a reward. Otherwise, what he has done everything becomes zero.There is more to the point: that is, do not override the boss. Brains, always wants to steal the show, this often leads to the boss's antipathy, on his arm.
11. stay calm when the boss accuse you to reflect on
Regardless of when a person's subordinates, if you catch it, or be warned, accused the shortcomings, people will not mind.
So, if someone face-to-face rebuke you, you'll be angry, that "you do not have to tell you I know," and anger, blush neck rough. No wonder. If you go to the repressed anger, impulsivity, and you will regret it afterwards. Therefore, when you want to anger, preferably in mind meditation: "wait!" this sentence "wait" to your patience. It has been suggested, then it is best to match stick in your hand and trouser pocket, a branch of a team to break it, you can suppress anger. This is a climate conversion method. When you will hear, or are being scolded, may wish to use these methods, you can calm the anger.
More positive person, may be called after all. But negative person, once having been rebuked but feel humiliated, not only does not lose his temper, but would produce a "Oh, I'm no good" ideas that are discouraged.
Whether strong or weak, their feelings cannot be disturbed by other people's rebuke, but should remain flexible and often remain calm, as long as the bow and admit when scolded.
The boss is a subordinate's awkward refutation. However, the subordinate being the boss rips into is a matter of course. Now that your boss is already reprimand, or do they just crisp apology! this is subordinate to their lovely attitude. Others blame your weaknesses and errors to ourselves, to upgrade their personality, but also is a connotation. Therefore, it can make you catch it.
12. open the tough flatly refused to do things
Boss delegate you do something, you must take into account, whether they are capable of? does not go against their conscience? consider before making a decision.
If just for a moment's favor, even if it is unable to do it then, once you fail, your boss will not consider your enthusiasm, will only be the failure of the results of your evaluation.
Themselves to tailored themselves found it difficult to do, but because the boss delegate had to next, this person's heart seems too soft. Even on their own good boss delegate, but consciously really do, you should be very clear that attitude, said: "I'm sorry, I can't. "This is the real courage. Otherwise, you would be misleading.
If you think this is the boss come on you, not denial, or fear of rejection, the boss will not be pleased, but accept it, then, after that your situation is very difficult. So afraid to offend the boss rather reluctantly agreed, promised to regret after will certainly, but much later.
Despite his men in positions of subordination to the boss, but it should be in the personality is independent and not affiliated with boss, nor is not good and evil and wrong everything have to obey. Men are not the slave, if your boss have helped you a lot, and now he will entrust you do unreasonable or inappropriate things, you should resolutely denied. This is for the boss, is you thanked his correct method.
13. practical hard, good boss will naturally be close to you
A good boss, the boss is reliable. Could such a good boss, is crucial to your future. I wish you could find a reliable boss.
To this end, I advise you to concentrate on their work, increasingly alive, do not aspire to progress. This dedicated work attitude, even if you usually speechless, good boss will be close to you, don't you bother to look.
Earnest work attitude, anyone can see it. At the same time, people always like to help this person.
If you would like to have a good boss, you have to concentrate.
In busy, the boss will be dilated eyes looking for competent people. You should believe in the boss's eyes and get down to work hard, make their living.
As long as you are a human, will do, and conscientious, good boss would smirk near you.
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