Seven "personal" wealth Guide

Ask, what is love? many Chinese food for all. Love, affection, we all have to face the world countless human feelings. Closer relations between that of friendship, joy and sorrow can share; farther and more, you'll follow hunsangjiaqu to "human"; the relationship between poor rigid, more companies are angry at the grievances, and gas injury the body.

View career, some is talent with intrinsic dependable only alwu sinned, but more still friends all over the world walk through force. Or that people are saying, IQ, EQ and EQ high financial intelligence quotient, to a certain extent, nature can mining personal potential, gather infinite popularity, achievement of extraordinary popularity, so the writing career. Today we tell the story that the three very good interpersonal and successfully developing into industry, but also very scientifically managed, allowing personal wealth to go beyond the normal speed.

An overview of their wealth creation stories, the author summarizes a 7 "personal wealth Bible" for readers. Generous atmosphere make friends United States Tycoon Rockefeller in their heyday had thoughtfully said: "the ability to get along with people, if you like sugar and coffee can be bought, I will provide that ability to pay some money. "While the United States who have Quotable said 20-year-old rely on manual to make money, make money on the mental age of thirty, forty years later they rely on the terms and make money. They speak of is a meaning: friends much money-making opportunities. And how to cultivate friendships? Carnegie Training partner and head of black hatchling's opinion: "the complete relationships contains three stages, explore connections, business relations, has to say. "Modern society, establishing connections in the far past the so-called" La "so vulgar simple, it contains many levels deep, you need to work hard. Behind the story, the three Heroes of personal strength deep are impressive: there are sick in hospital, half day, there are more than 200 people came to visit; let the top international financing for his bravura high-level venture capital; others let customer spontaneously as she introduces new customer. But their common characteristic is looking for personal initiative, locate the person to try to meet, get to know when your good friend generous treatment. Some people might say: often eat drink that's fair-weather friends, not necessarily true. But the starting point for the development of connections is the first volume of the "run" again to select the objects you can focus on the development of, and take the first step, generous people, make people feel your air is necessary.

On low profile increases popularity "others interested, to the degree of speculation. "This is the Mencius · Qi Huan Jin on the matter of the famous", it is actually a friend of heaven is admire your one and only way. Harvard Professor John Dewey person once said: "the human nature in most demand is eager to be sure. "This talk honestly not absurd. Even if you are a very generous people every day make a friend for dinner PARTY, but always hold arrogant attitude, others say what will refute, estimate the number of your friends will not be many. Of course, the we do not advocate told a mess trying to friends and want to learn to "put a low profile on soft movements", learn to listen carefully to what others say, more learning "thought of others of the heart", understanding friend said reasons and position, try to understand them, so that both can learn their strengths and make friends feel respected and understood. In short, to broaden their contacts, not only to physical effort, more of a focus on the heart.

Not because people didn't microbial despise maybe you rich dad, not reduce hard life partner of 20 years, but to understand human learning, can have a little help, gain more power. But do not have a too snobbish management because vision, others are rich people, out of gold in silver, a pair of little features serve to others is now a down and out of the little people overlook, flouted, despise it. Historical novelist Gao Yang's the red top "Hu xueyan, its excellent communicative artifices makes readers greatly impressed on the in-depth study of Hu xueyan scholar cengshiqiang analysis, Hu xueyan's forte is" things look deeply enough, vision, and never neglect nobodies. " Read red top book know, Zhejiang Provincial Governor Wang have age on Hu xueyan hair has absolutely impact, as for the original Wang have age but a poor scholar, but the full help Hu xueyan equivalent investment sum of terms of business. Chinese Taipei "as spiritual growth Association," the founder of the Lai Shu-hui open real estate intermediary is a "meet the case" nobodies. At that time, Lai Shu-hui lives in a mansion, at the same engaging the building of a real estate broker, after she made a careful study, it was found that the building interested purchasers, the first always asked Gates administrator, "recently households to sell my house? price?" is interesting is that each administrator's answer was: "you go to live on the eighth floor of AR girl, she is like buying a House, so you don't have to find other brokers. "In addition, the building who urgently want to sell for money House's message is always the first to her ears. Therefore, Shu-hui in the capital, building a property on the whole earned 1000 million.　　Why administrators willing to help Lai Shu-hui's busy? bluntly that she will anyone as family-like, Lai Shu-hui daily access door on the day will be the duty of the Manager, business trip returns will also bring some local famous dishes on the table. Suffering from rally this article a hero's legendary experience he was ill in hospital and a half days of 200 friends come to visit. He told our reporter, then ill let him breathing pauses for a few minutes, almost died, woke up to see friends many tears over her, suddenly feeling friends so really they have a very meaningful. Western behavioral theory put forward by experts, that person's life and probably can be returned to 200 friends, most core can have 50. Most people seem to be friends, claim to have intercourse but mentioning; like socializing occasions people, active connections appear plentiful, but willing to help him over backwards, is these seem to be heating up just nodding, but you can ignore, but real attention and your friend's friends. That's how you can make friends when you're sick? most tears

A simple approach would be in their usual health safely and they do, they suffered hardship when more enthusiastically help them. Establish a personal crisis is not only useful, but also for the very good reputation in the future to other friends as well.

Uphold the principles it trust emphasizes personal, not want you to adhere to the people make friends at the turn of the "villain", but rather to select the principle of "gentleman". This is not mentioned in the story of Lo brilliant heroine, she has always put the customer as the core network, but will not change their principles. A customer wants to have a lot to do with visual disability even persons, activities for the public to express half, she found the donation of products is out of warranty limit is very near everything, so ask them for the production of goods, just after the fight is still rejected after she decided to select the unilateral termination of activities, not only from less than one customers also lost money has been made out. But the result is that when other clients and friends know about it, conscious hand her a principled friends very at ease, because she's not going to sell principle undermine the interests of others. Thus, her friend while reducing one, he won a higher popularity and people watching.

Online debut of popular technology developed for interpersonal network exchanges become diversified and complex. Some people, MSN friends list hundred, worse, operating a network of shops, there are hundreds of thousands of loyal customers. To some extent, now flourishing incomparable "Super girl" was gathered tens of thousands of people, just as they send SMS over 10 million records. In the network have understanding friend, possible in real life than in the past year know. Internet dating has become a fashionable and trendy, is good "variable from virtual reality friends". Journalists on the recognition of a boss, business is professional modification of vehicles look, decorate the car shop.　　The company has just opened for business in a short time, he coached "lurking" on the network, some of the BBS Cheyoujulebu now 1 years in the past, he in many BBS are famous figures, often he sought to change vehicle knowledge, discussion, of course, the car a lot of people talking about it will drive to his shop "practice".　　So in this day and age, if still cling to old ideas that disdains the connections on the network, it is outdated. Business card management often fresh if said, the above story is the "Bible" of human consciousness, this last resort killer is telling its purely technical articles. China, Taiwan has the famous master "card management" called Yang Shun-yan, he claims to have several different people 16000 's business card, and after he established a business card management system, you can in a few seconds to find out any one wanted information. Let him think of the opportunity of developing this system is its 2001 resignation from the original company, the mass-3000 more e-mail messages to inform relatives resignation, while thanking us for many years, I didn't expect to continue to receive 300 letter, including 16 full-time and part-time job opportunities. "This is a turning point in my life. "Yang-Sun ren said," if it was a bright dial, might play in less than ten pass just stopped. "Then he began the study of the business card management, systematic business card to enter the computer, but from the recommended 16 job opportunities, select a presentation in small and medium-sized Internet application of part-time work. He is very great importance to personal "freshness", often write a "Hi, I am the Sun Yan, long time no see, has recently been?" message, sent to hundreds of friends. "Now began to organize your business cards on hand, never too late. "Yang-Sun Yan said he has today's results are also building out bit by bit. "In fact tools in our side, as long as you use Outlook, you can immediately go into operation. The daily wrap to the card you want to back annotation, including meeting place, introduce people, interested in features, as well as the chat conversation to issue more detailed figures, the better, and to the establishment of the ' new contact ', will these messages in the notes column, you can just use the ' search ' function, can be found with nature. "Yang-Sun Yan patiently explained. Read the article, do you have any hesitation? get started building your own connections, long-lasting career.

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