Some people do employees who see people love; a promoted into management immediately "talk power" of poisoning the tone behind the word wrong, are making people look uncomfortable, people see tiresome, and soon he became utterly, utterly isolated. Power to people who feel poisoning "and keeping promise," "power and prestige able", leading the way; he does not see himself in the accumulation of sowing hatred, animosity and inspiring confrontation. Managed people doing things, playing sliding hard top, or even looking for revenge.
Ancient Confucian, Taoist and Buddhist about compassion, for free, try to speak as a human to human immune detoxification. Today there are management scholars call for leadership, Reminder Manager more posts with "non-power" and not "positions of power."
Poisoning the crowd
Power poisoning, virtually all industries, all kinds of people.
A relative PTS after graduation to work as guards, regular training of prisoners, "141, squat! honest!". Less than a year, at home, speak also has this smell, whether brothers or their parents, as well as her prisoner. Family is looking forward to her weekend don't come back.
One day in the lift, upstairs 5-year-old boy with tears in her eyes. His father put his head on the wall, the "useless things, it is better to go to death." She worried that "sooner or later the day the child is killed him. "No see, I could not believe me there are parents.
A friend of mine, formerly the business backbone, helpfulness, popularity, the better. Then do a bossed around, no, two days could not bear the subordinates. She enjoyed: carrying out inspection of small hand everywhere, whether there is Internet access, lazy. Subordinate soon started off her, she angrily, all become disobedient, and ducked out of her, she never, every chance I get to talk to the detriment of her image of classic event.
A famous graduation girl Petite tenderness, love, people see who is responsible for the procurement of employment. Start supplier please her dinner she will appreciate each other's friend; now she directly open to "honour", no matter what she was supposed to, and increasing appetite. Supplier to her pet hates, secretly trying to grab her handle to counterattacks. "Hid is my now" vendor so describe themselves. Her use of the right to sin against these people, if I leave the company, these "friends" no longer ignore her.
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In General, use the higher the frequency of posts, the more easily power poisoning. Triad member, Bureau, police, etc. are the perpetrators of violence, the work requires frequent use of the powers, particularly vulnerable position. Government officials, parents, procurement officers, managers, etc. all hands a little power, and if they are accustomed to use posts, or poisoning.
Psychological testing — Jin Vado simulation prison experiment
Stanford University (Stanford) psychologists Philip · Tianjin Vado (PhilipZimbardo) and his colleagues at Stanford University's Department of Psychology at the Office building basements have established a "prison", they take the price of $ 15 per day to hire 24 student to participate in the experiment. These students ' emotional stability, health, legal compliance, in the General personality test, score is a normal level. Experiments on these students are free to carry out a role assignment, part of "caretaker", another part of the people as "criminals", and set out some basic rules. Then, the experimenter would hide behind the scenes to see how things will develop.
Two weeks of beginning, was assigned to be "watchmen" of students and was assigned to do the "criminals" student, there is no much difference. Also, be "watchmen" is not specially trained how to do gaolers. Experiments would only tell them "maintained on prison law and order", don't put "criminals" gibberish (e.g. criminal said: "the prohibition of the use of violence").
How long is the "watchmen" let "criminals" thoroughly caved. And every Member of the "guards" in a simulation experiment, make abuse "criminals". For example, a "caretaker" said: "I felt incredible ... I let them keep mutually called each other's name, but also let them by hand to scrub toilets. I really put the ' offender ' as livestock, and I kept thinking, ' I must see live them and prevent them from doing bad things. "' As students participating in the experiment in experiments to demonstrate sick reaction, in six days later, the researchers would have to terminate the experiment.
Use the power of just 6 days, gentle student becomes sadists, power poisoning was so deep. In comparison with experiment, real-life power poisoning depth morbid may be different, but is the trend: caring heart is similar to gradually become devoid, ignore the suffering of others, and then intentionally hurt others, "to yield" addiction.
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